The animal printed Onesie!

I had a wedding a few weeks ago and everything was perfect, if I do say so myself. The bride was dressed in a $10,000.00 Maggie Sottero while the bridesmaids pranced around in their purple, Vera Wang floor length formals with the groomsmen sporting simple, formal, black tuxedos and the 1 year old baby who was not on the guest list showed off her best animal printed onesie!! Did I mention is was 11:30pm when the mother of the child decided to bring this animal printed baby on the dance floor with the bride and groom who specifically stated on their invitation “Adult Reception”?

In case there are parents out there that do not know what I am getting at, here’s the point. First, it’s 11:30pm; why is there a 1 year old hanging out at a party at this time of night? Secondly, why do people feel that the rules do not apply to them just because they have children? If I wanted to bring 5 guests instead of my “plus 1” wouldn’t I be considered rude for that? Third, an animal print onesie – I have no comment for that!

Whether or not children should be invited to wedding receptions is a totally different topic all together. Children involved in weddings as a general subject seems to get a bit sticky for almost every couple that I’ve worked with or known when planning their weddings. I think it’s each person’s right to decide whether or not they invite or involve children in their special day but, trust me, I will have a future entry expressing my thought on that matter. Currently, my issue is with the guests/parents who ignore the couple’s wishes to not include little ones.

As a guest who does not have children, but does have a lot of friends and a puppy, is it appropriate for me to bring the wolf pack all because I think everyone should support my lifestyle? I understand that sometimes a babysitter is hard to find, but it doesn’t mean that you disregard the hosts of a party and bring the person they asked you not to bring. As a parent, there are some things that you miss out on and perhaps this wedding was one thing the parent of this printed princess should have missed.

My biggest issue with this specific situation is that the child was the bride’s niece (she was the bride’s brother’s baby). While some of you might think that makes the situation worse on the part of the bride, I think it makes it worse on the part of the parents. The bride was confronted by her brother and sister-in-law before the wedding and they expressed their desire to have their child in attendance and at that point, the bride explained why she decided not to include her niece. As far as we were concerned, the issue was over and done with, but I guess people will do what they wanna! The fact is, this isn’t the only time this has happened and in some other cases, the children have been older – running around, screaming, jumping in pictures, sliding on the dance floor and all the while not realizing that their parents have turned them into “wedding crashers.”

Parents out there, please, try to think about your wedding day. Think about the things that were important to you. Maybe it was most important to you to have purple flowers and fried oysters. What if the florist decided that she was in a pink mood so that’s what she brought and the chef decided that if he slipped in fried shrimp instead, no one would notice? To some people, their guest list takes precedence and, while I’m sure your child is just lovely, it’s not personal so stop making it about your children and start thinking of other people. I’m sure that when you got married, your friends were at your wedding drinking, dancing and concentrating on you. Give them the same courtesy. After all, people are inviting you to their event because you are a person that they are friends with, not because you are the mother of “Anna animal print!”

Dress of the Week – Third Week Of May

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Switching it up for the bridesmaids this week, I’m featuring this Hailey Page beauty as my “Dress of the Week!”  I love that this dress just looks comfortable and flattering, in my opinion, on most body types.  I do also love that you have three different options for the top of the dress.  Simple, but beautiful!  Great option for bridesmaids!

Dress of the Week – Second Week of May

Victoria KyriaKides

I have a feeling I will be featuring Victoria KyriaKides a lot more since seeing the Fall 2016 line, but today, this specific beauty is my pick for “Dress of the Week!”  With or without the bolero, this dress is amazing!  Perfect for a beach wedding, or a black tie ballroom affair, this dress looks comfortable and beautiful no matter where your dream wedding takes place!

Dress of the Week – Mother’s Day!!

In honor of Mother’s Day this weekend, I thought it would be a good idea to give all of the moms out there a few great dress options!  The days of wearing beige and covering up are long gone, even for the mother of the groom!  It it my opinion that the moms only need to follow two simple rules for a dress – Just keep it classy and sassy!  Make sure you choose something that you are comfortable with both physically and emotionally making sure it matches your body and your style.  Whether you are looking for suits or separates, sequins or satin, diamonds or pearls, there’s something out there to fit your style.  See if any of these are right for you!

La Femme Evening:

la femme evening collection also in a red wine color                        la femme eveing collection also in black La Femme as well                        La Femme Evening

Montage by Mon Cheri:

Montage by Mon Cheri                       montage by mon cheri as well

Social Occasions by Mon Cheri:

social occassions by mon cheri also in mint green

Jade:

jade

Alfred Angelo:

Alfred Angelo Special Occasion

Celebrity by David Tutera:

Celebrity by David Tutera